Weekend Update

After a very satisfying weekend -- including an overnight visit with a very special little pet, you know who you are -- I still have another day off tomorrow. I should really be getting more work done, but I admit, I've been spoiling myself this weekend. I needed a few days off.

I had an afternoon coffee with the Headmistress of ClubFemNYC, the organization to which I belong. She's such an amazingly gracious and wonderful person. I felt instantly at home with her, from the moment we met. Sometimes people and situations come into your life at precisely the perfect moment, and that's how I'm feeling about ClubFem. I've spent too long looking for the right boy online, when the online environment is a place that breeds the kind of bad behavior I want to avoid. I've never been more clear in my life about what I want than I am these days -- and never so determined not to compromise that, or myself. ClubFem absolutely provides the right support system for that. I had almost forgotten how vital it is to socialize with other Dommes -- they remind me of what I am, and how important it is to safeguard and honor that.

Anyway, a few hours with the Headmistress, and I was feeling very good about where I am right now, very clear-headed and happy. We talked about our plans for a training academy for submissives who want to learn how to really attract the right mistress, and I agreed to take on some of the logistical organizing of this -- I'll be really curious to see if any boys have what it takes to make it through. If they do, they'll have the approval of at least five formidable Dominant women, and I'm sure our references will certainly count for something. We each will take turns training one boy, he'll get a different Domme each month to teach him skills he needs to learn. I don't know -- if a guy approached me and he had the approval of five Dommes and had been trained in almost everything I liked, that would really make me sit up and take notice. That's like a dream-submissive right there.